The Daily Escape:
Mt. Adams sunrise with orchards in bloom, WA – May 2023 photo by Mitch Schreiber Photography
(Wrongo and Ms. Right give a group hug to family member Bob W. His mother has a grave health crisis. We’re thinking of you Bob.)
Thereâs a book called âA Terrible Countryâ written in 2018 by Keith Gessen. Itâs about life in Russia a few years before Russia became a pariah in Europe. But the title could easily describe the US in 2023. If you doubt that, maybe you arenât aware of the video of a NYC subway rider choking a homeless man to death last week. The video lasts for four minutes.
The NYT describes the video:
âThe homeless man, Jordan Neely, is seen writhing, trying to get free from the arms and legs of the other subway riders who are pinning him down. As the minutes tick by early Monday afternoon on a northbound F train in Manhattan, Mr. Neely visibly weakens as the arm wrapped around his neck stays tight.â
After he stops moving, the riders hold him down for about another 50 seconds. Neely was later pronounced dead at a nearby hospital. Jordan Neely was homeless. He was a Michael Jackson impersonator. Neelyâs race (Black) and that of his killer (White) are a depressingly familiar story. Whatâs different is that his assailant wasnât a cop and didnât use a gun.
Whatâs also familiar is that the assailant has not been charged by the NYPD.
Whatâs also disturbing is that the subway car held bystanders most of whom remained bystanders, watching a former Marine choke the life out of Neely for (apparently) behaving erratically.
After the fact, we learned that Neely had more than 40 arrests including an open warrant for punching a 67 old woman. No one should portray him as simply a misunderstood soul. But did he deserve to die in that subway car?
If youâve been paying attention, you know that thereâs been news nearly every day about Americans being killed over mundane, mostly non-threatening actions, or for being in the wrong place at the wrong time.
âWe are at something of an impasse. The list of things that can get you killed in public is expanding every single day. Whether itâs mass shootings or police brutality or random acts of violence, it only takes running into one scared man to have the worst and likely last day of your life. We canât even agree on right and wrong anymore.â
How did the country get this way? Why is there so much fear and paranoia about the âotherâ? Why do select elements of our society cultivate this fear by marketing it?
Neelyâs killing is partly an outcome of the relentless political rhetoric that has contributed to the publicâs false beliefs about actual crime levels in Americaâs cities. And NYCâs Mayor and NYâs Governor wouldnât even condemn the killer. Elizabeth Bruenig writes in The Atlantic:
âThis process, through which mundane uncomfortable situations are transformed into terrifying ordeals by…incidents of random gun violence…is one means by which a healthy community becomes a violent society. Nobody looks forward to encountering people behaving erratically on the subway…but killing a mentally ill man on a train….represents the loss of a peaceful commons, the absence of compassion, and the overwhelming fear we have come to accept in our culture of violence. This is the country we have become.â
Yep, weâve become a terrible country. Back to Roxanne Gay:
âThere is no patience for simple mistakes or room for addressing how bigotry colors even the most innocuous interactions. There is no regard for due process. People who deem themselves judge, jury and executioner walk among us, and we have no real way of knowing when they will turn on us.â
And on Thursday, four of the Proud Boys, among paranoiaâs finest, were convicted of committing vigilante justice against our democracy. Letâs leave the final words to Gay, who says weâve become:
â…a people without empathy, without any respect for the sanctity of life unless itâs our own…â
Or fetuses.
Time for Wrongo to wash up after digging in this cultural dirt. Itâs time for our Saturday Soother where we try to forget about whose drones hit the Kremlin, and try to center ourselves before another demanding week begins,
Here at the Mansion of Wrong, Wrongo and Ms. Right are spending the weekend in NYC seeing two musicals.
But as a public service to the rest of you, grab a seat outdoors on what looks like a beautiful day in the northeast. Now watch and listen to ErzsĂ©bet Pozsgai play the first movement of âSpringâ from the âFour Seasonsâ by Antonio Vivaldi on solo violin, live in Budapest in 2013:


